How to Forgive...When You Don't Feel Like It Paperback – September 1, 2007

This book is a pure gem that will benefit every soul who reads it!There is no one who hasn't been affected by others in a negative way at some point in there life. Large or small in scale the offense, this book will help bring you to forgiveness.I've only thought about those offenses and the people I need to forgive while I read this book. I haven't actually done the work of forgiving as I've just finished the book moments ago, yet my spirit feels lighter. I'm looking forward to forgiving. How weird does that sound in today's revenge filled world? LOLOthers have mentioned the rock analogies were overdone and I can agree somewhat. The main theme is rocks in your bag/life. I found after awhile though the analogies to be forming in my mind a better mental picture of the damage this bag of boulders was doing to me. I would tell the author to not change a word and I'd offer to the reader they embrace the theme as they read the book. I can see how an annoyance could develop which would cloud the absorption of the message. I'd hate for that to be you, future reader!One final note, this book isn't only about forgiving others for their sin but also about being the one who needs forgiveness for our own sin. Keep that in mind as you enjoy the journey that is this book.

This book was so well written, with many personal stories. It is a must read for any Christian. It lays the groundwork for a path to forgiveness and reconciliation, even in the most extreme instances...the key to finding the lasting joy, peace, grace, and love of God.

This book spoke to my soul. My husband and I read it as advised by a professional counselor and it is packed with powerful truths and poignant, sometimes gut wrenching stories. A great path toward healing for all, and a must read.

Actually I was buying the book for group discussion but the book did not have any questions to discuss. It is a powerful books for personal use and I love it. I also order another one about forgiveness written by June and we are all loving it.

Highly practical; wisdom drawn from real experiences. Found it a gem after years of struggling with unforgiveness

I'm not much of a reader but WOW this is a really good book. It was recommended during and referenced several times in Bible study and the majority ordered the book or already owned it, had read it and shared it with others and bought more. I ordered 9 using Prime. Even when you think you're really not holding any grudges or bitterness this book helps you to examine some of the smaller, deeply buried, and large birrer roots that you might be caring with you and how to release them and free yourself from that ugliness. Even when you didn't think it really applied to you.

This is a very comprehensive book on learning to forgive and the freedom it brings in your life.

If you are struggling with forgiveness because we know that is what we are supposed to do - this book is for you. I found it so applicable to my situation because for me, it gave me the opportunity to re-frame the idea of forgiveness and realize that forgiving does not mean you condone the offending behavior or that you have to let it continue to be part of your life. The scripture based discussion and counsel made a huge difference for me...I hope it will help you too.