the sizes make no sense!!! an xxxl is 28 inch chest and 34 inch waist?

Hello Lynda! The chest width is measured across the width of the t-shirt, from armpit-to-armpit. So a 3XL measures 28" across or approximately 56" (28 x 2) around. It measures 33-34" in length from shoulder to hem. Please reference the style-specific size chart included in the listing's images (last image before the video!) for specific product measurements along with model representations of each size. This should provide all of the information you need! Thank you, Ann Arbor T-shirt Co.

This isn’t screen printed, it’s a transfer is your description wrong?

Hi, thank you for reaching out to us with your concern. I can assure you that this design is not transfer, and is commercial grade screen-print. Our team uses top-of-the-line presses, and QCM Inks to produce this product! This design is 100% Screen Printed, so our product description is accurate. You are more than welcome to view inside our warehouse when our live feed is enabled: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ann+Arbor+T-shirt+Co./page/D54619E3-BDB7-4ED3-9BDF-89475A9FE745 or our feed could be present on this link in the future: https://www.amazon.com/live?ref_=nav_cs_amazonlive Unfortunately, at this time is not always on, but we are trying to get it streaming again with Amazon! If any further questions or concerns arise, please reach back out to us! Wishing you all the best!

Is the design part as soft as the shirt or is it stiffer?

Hi Katie! This is a screen printed t-shirt so the design and ink will sit on top of the shirt itself. It will have a texture to it but be flexible. So not quite either soft or stiff! I hope this helps to answer the question. Thanks for checking out our products!

Why only one really big size?

Thank you for reaching out to us with your question, and interest in our products! We apologize for the inconvenience, however many products listed on Amazon are made in advance and are sent to Amazon Fulfillment Centers where they await to be purchased by customers. Unfortunately, at this time we are out of stock for the Union Jack Flag, Adult Unisex but we do have plans to restock the product soon! When our shipment arrives to restock the Adult Unisex Union Jack Flag product, sizes Small, Medium, Large, X-Large, 2X-Large, and 3X-Large will become available. Union Jack Flag - Adult Unisex | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07C2D27K4 In addition, if you are interested, we offer this design on a Ladies' V-Neck Garment. Ladies' V-Neck currently has sizes Large, X-Large, 2X-Large, and 3X-Large available--sizes Small and Medium are out of stock at this time: Union Jack Flag - Ladies V-Neck | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07P61BF81 This design is also offered on a baseball cap that fits most sizes. Union Jack Flag - Baseball Cap | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07PRYZMMG All of that being said, we plan on restocking the Union Jack Flag Product soon. It may take us a few weeks to a few months though, as we will have to print more in Ann Arbor, Michigan, and then prepare them to be stored at Amazon Fulfillment Centers. Once the units arrive at the Amazon Fulfillment Centers, Amazon will mark the product as available allowing customers to purchase. We recommend checking back on the product link every now and then, so see when the product becomes available. If any further questions arise, please let us know. Wishing you all the best!