Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples

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Marriage is a natural developmental stage for most adults but the process of getting married and achieving a successful, long-lasting marriage can be fraught with challenges for Muslims in North America. The authors present a unique approach that reflects 40 years of combined experience in counseling couples. Mohamed Hag Magid is a prominent imam at one of the largest mosques in the US, and Salma Elkadi Abugideiri is a licensed mental health professional. The two provide an Islamic framework for the entire marriage process and present marriage as a partnership while underscoring the ingredients for successfully finding a spouse, as well as for establishing and maintaining a healthy marriage.This book is invaluable for anyone seeking marriage, as well as for parents who are involved in their childrens marriage process. Those getting re-married after a divorce or death of a spouse will also find this book extremely useful. The authors raise thought-provoking questions to help readers increase self-awareness, clarify what is desired in a spouse and in a marriage, and help them get to know a potential spouse. Topics addressed in detail include finding a spouse, the role of family and in-laws, the marriage contract and wedding, intimacy, spirituality and finances. Special issues addressed include mental health, domestic violence and threats to a marriage. This marriage guide is surprisingly comprehensive and practical. It provides a tool kit with concrete skills that can be used throughout a marriage to ensure a healthy relationship that is grounded in the Islamic values of love and mercyqualities that are necessary to achieve the ultimate purpose of marriage: mutual tranquility. This book promises to be a valuable resource that couples will turn to for many years both as a refresher and as a reference. Review: Great book with lots of great wisdom - I highly recommend this book for new couples looking to get married or married couples looking to address problems in their marriage. Lots of wisdom and great advice. Review: a must read for every family - I recently read the book "Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples" and I must say, it is an excellent resource for anyone considering marriage or in a serious relationship. This book offers practical advice and insights for couples that can help them navigate the complexities of long-term relationships. One of the things that I appreciated about this book is that it covers a wide range of topics that are essential for any couple to discuss before getting married. From communication and conflict resolution to finances and intimacy, the book offers clear and practical guidance on how to approach these sensitive and often difficult topics. The writing style of the book is engaging and accessible, making it an easy read for anyone. I also appreciated the many real-life examples and anecdotes that the author uses to illustrate his points. These stories help to bring the advice to life and make it feel more relatable. Overall, I would highly recommend "Before You Tie the Knot: A Guide for Couples" to anyone who is considering marriage or in a serious relationship. This book offers valuable insights and practical advice that can help couples build stronger and more fulfilling relationships. Whether you are just starting out or have been together for years, this book is an excellent resource that can help you navigate the challenges of long-term relationships.